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The Other Side of Your Hesitation

What if the only thing holding God back is you?

The World of What If

I have encountered some incredible and gifted people in my journey. But as many that have gone on to do amazing things have also done little or nothing with what God has given them. They've chosen to live in a place of comfort and confusion. A place where logic and fear reside. "The World of What If"...

What if I no one likes it? What if they love it?

What if it doesn't sell? What if it does?

What if I get embarrassed? What if I'm embraced?

What if I lose? What if I win? What if it stays the same?

What if, what if, what if?

You can always tell how likely someone is to fulfill purpose by the weight of the what if's in their life. I've never seen anything have more impact on God's people moving forward than what if.

So, I ask the question again.

What if the only thing holding God back is YOU?

One Decision Can Change Your Life

Because God gives us free will, the choice is yours. Are you ready to stand flat-footed and make the one decision that will change your life? If so, say this with me...

I will not let my "what if's" be louder than the Word of God.

We can talk about purpose, question purpose, learn about purpose, but until we are accountable to purpose, we are just circling in a sea of uncertainty.

You want answers? Go to the Word of God.

God is not afraid of your questions.

The answers,

the confirmations,

the affirmations you need are in His Word.

Just understand that once you know better through His Word, guess what? You are accountable to doing better.

Are you ready to do better?

My new book, GOD 'n You: Finding Your Place in Forever, serves as a guide to help women break the cycle of hesitation. It's my personal testimony of how God took me on the path to my own truth. But there would be no story to tell had it not been for my Best Friend Forever, the Word of God.

Like tears, it wiped all my what if's away.

No, this is not rocket science, but don't diminish its value because of it's simplicity.

I couldn't be casual with the Word and expect Heaven to be intentional with me.

Simple things can be hard, but you've got this.

There's so much waiting for you on the other side of hesitation...

Focus and Favor

Peace and Power

Joy and Justice

Grace and Giving

Loving and Living

Need any of these in your life?

Then join me over the next few weeks as we explore these dynamic duos and how they can bless you when you make the choice to move forward.

Until then...

Go. Read. Your. Bible.

Find Solace in Your Citizenship

No more living in the land of what if. Your place is with God. Your place is in God. It's time to find your assurance in and take ownership of your citizenship in Zion.

His foundation is on the holy mountain. The Lord loves the gates of Zion more than all the dwellings of Jacob (Israel). Glorious things are spoken of you, O city of God [Jerusalem]. Selah. “I will mention Rahab (Egypt) and Babylon among those who know Me— Behold, Philistia and Tyre with Ethiopia (Cush)— ‘This one was born there.’” But of Zion it will be said, “This one and that one were born in her,” and the Most High Himself will establish her. The Lord will count, when He registers the peoples, “This one was born there.” Selah. The singers as well as the players of flutes will say, “All my springs and sources of joy are in you [Jerusalem, city of God].” ~Psalms 87, Amplified Bible


Rest and reflect in knowing that your identity and your future are safe in Zion.

That is what awaits you on the other side of hesitation. Your identity in Christ. Your future in Creation.

Go get what's yours.


Replace every "what if" in our lives with an affirmation from your Word. Let it ring true in every circumstance. We stand on it. We live in it. We love you for it. In Jesus' name. Amen.





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About Phillipa



Phillipa Williams has dedicated her life to building God’s kingdom. A former programs director for new member and Christian education with over 36 years’ experience in leadership and discipleship, she has equipped thousands to serve God and community.

She is the Founder/CEO of GOD n Me International, a faith-based social enterprise equipping and inspiring others for spiritual intimacy, transparency, and destiny. Her blog,, was named one of the "Top 10 Black Christian Blogs, Websites, Newsletters To Follow in 2019“ by In Spring 2022, Phillipa published her first book, GOD 'n You: Finding Your Place in Forever. She also completed the licensing and ministerial requirements at the Potter's House School of Ministry in Dallas, Texas.

An advocate for women and children, Phillipa founded and serves as Executive Director of the 501 (c)(3) nonprofit, ilooklikeLOVE, Inc.. ilooklikeLOVE works to eradicate early childhood poverty through diaper assistance and capacity building for new mothers.


She is the proud parent on one adult son, Kenneth.

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