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Fragrant. Fortunate. These two words define the names of two women in the Philippian church, Euodia with Syntyche. The apostle Paul speaks of them specifically in the text, but not in a good way...

I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. ~Philippians 4:2 NIV

We don't know the context of their discontent. All we know is there's drama and it's a distraction. Now, drama can be subtle and sly or inflamed and out of control. It can even be a war we fight within ourselves, but no matter the form it is always a distraction.

I call this condition, "Imma-do-me-itis". When active, "Imma-do-me-itis" can make you inflexible in your stance, unwilling to compromise, and emotional in your decision-making. It takes your eyes of the prize and sets course on a rollercoaster ride far from your future's finish line. Dizzy and distracted, you lose the precious commodities of time, energy, reputation, and relationships.

So... let's stop acting as if our drama has nothing to do with our destiny. It does.

Stop acting like our "beef" doesn't change how people see us. It does.

Stop acting as if no one cares about what's affecting us.

They do, and it's affecting them, too.

I want not only my prayers, but how I live my life to be a sweet fragrance unto God. I want the Father's favor and good fortune for me and my house. Don't you? Great! Then let's see how we can live redeemed from the drama of distractions...

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. ~Philippians 4:8 NIV

Don't minimize the text. This is a strategic redemption plan for your deliverance. Only a few verses prior, Paul was writing about the dispute. Now, here is the solution.

We begin with the end in mind...

... think about such things.

If your time is precious, then you need to change how you process time-kills. Focus on what affirms you. Reducing your mental investment in the drama diminishes its power and redeems your time.

And so, on what should you spend your time and your thoughts?

(Glad you asked.)

whatever is true,...

(Don't worry about the lie they told. You know the truth.)

whatever is noble, whatever is right,...

(The Bible tells us to "thirst after righteousness", that which is right in the eyes of God.

This would be a good time to start.)

Whatever is pure... (versus what was been distorted),

Whatever is lovely... (versus ugly thoughts and behaviors),

Whatever is admirable... (versus what might damage your reputation)

if anything is excellent or praiseworthy...

(Wisely use your time and energy to affirm what the Father sees in and believes about you and your adversary. They are his children, too.)

Think on THESE things!

The one and only time we see the names of these two faithful, committed individuals in the Bible is in the context of distracting drama. Don't let negativity define your ministry! Distractions may not keep you from serving others, but they will absolutely determine how well and under what circumstances you serve. Stress and tension are detracting from your well-being, your dreams, and your time. It's affecting how others see you, treat you, and feel about you. But you can still turn this thing around. Agree to disagree if you must, but no more losses to drama. Rise above it. Redeem the time.

Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. ~Philippians 4:9 NIV

And if you are asking yourself why YOU have to be the bigger person, it's because whatever Heaven has waiting for you on the other side is worth it and it comes with the peace of God!

You and I are trying to get somewhere! We have to let the MASTER order our steps as we climb. When we choose divine over drama, the only way we can go is up!


Yes! Distractions are dismissed! What will you dismiss next? They say the air gets thinner the higher you go, which means everyone and everything can't go with you. Next week, it's time to go all in and say "goodbye" to our HESITATIONS!

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Phillipa also the Founder of ilooklikeLOVE, Inc., a 501(c)(3) Non-Profit Organization providing diaper assistance to families in need and opportunities for mothers to empower themselves.

Look for her upcoming book,

GOD n You: Finding Your Place in Forever.

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Phillipa Williams has dedicated her life to building God’s kingdom. A former programs director for new member and Christian education with over 36 years’ experience in leadership and discipleship, she has equipped thousands to serve God and community.

She is the Founder/CEO of GOD n Me International, a faith-based social enterprise equipping and inspiring others for spiritual intimacy, transparency, and destiny. Her blog,, was named one of the "Top 10 Black Christian Blogs, Websites, Newsletters To Follow in 2019“ by In Spring 2022, Phillipa published her first book, GOD 'n You: Finding Your Place in Forever. She also completed the licensing and ministerial requirements at the Potter's House School of Ministry in Dallas, Texas.

An advocate for women and children, Phillipa founded and serves as Executive Director of the 501 (c)(3) nonprofit, ilooklikeLOVE, Inc.. ilooklikeLOVE works to eradicate early childhood poverty through diaper assistance and capacity building for new mothers.


She is the proud parent on one adult son, Kenneth.

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